Sunday, November 27, 2011

What's in a name? - The tale of two Grandmas

At our baby shower in October one of my lovely hostesses asked me what my hopes were for our baby girl.  Up till that point I hadn't been intentional in thinking about that topic.  My thoughts were more pragmatic like:  I hope that our baby girl is healthy.. I hope she doesn't die.. I hope our baby girl is really a girl since I bought all girl clothes... etc.  Once I began to reflect on this question more deeply I realized that we had considered our hopes for baby girl in the selection of her name.  So this is the story of the people and the meaning behind Lena Joyce's name and what we hope for our new little baby girl.


Lena
This is Lena Chessie Dykstra Shackleton (1891-1955).  She is Dan's paternal grandmother who was born in Iowa in 1891 to Dutch immigrants.   She was mother to four boys who all grew up to serve the Lord and live lives committed to Christ. 

Joyce
 This is Joyce Crabtree Hurst (1918-1996).  She is my maternal grandmother who lived most of her adult life in San Francisco where I visited her a couple times every year.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Precious Moments: Part Two

Lena in the NICU and Coming Home 




Lena's First Visitors

Friday, November 25, 2011

Precious Moments: Part One

Lena's Labor



The C-Section:  Lena's Arrival

Monday, November 14, 2011

Lena's First Week Home!

"My name is Lena and I am this big!"
Early last Tuesday morning we got a call from the NICU.  The neonatalogist wanted to let us know that he was happy with the progress that Lena had made in the last few days and was writing her discharge papers!  My emotions were all over the place.  I was excited that Lena was coming home but I was so nervous that we would mess her up.  Dan was great.  In my insecurity he reminded me that we knew how to change her and feed her and God would help us take care of the rest.  As each day has passed this week Dan and I have gotten more and more comfortable caring for little miss Lena.  On Thursday we went to our mother well baby appointment at St. Jude and Lena had already gained three ounces since she came home with us on Tuesday morning.  It was a nice affirmation that we were doing all the right things so far.  My blood pressure was still incredibly high and the swelling quite bad so I had to rush over to the OB office to see Dr. B.  He doubled my medication and ordered me on bed rest for a week.  I am to do nothing but rest, attend my Dr. appointments, and care for Lena.  On Friday we met Lena's new pediatrician for the first time and again we were blessed with a great report on little Lena.  The doctors are all in agreement that while Lena is small she is incredibly healthy and for that we are sooooo thankful.  Lena has beat great odds to be born into this world.  Her little life is a miracle and her story will never cease to amaze me. 

Me and miss Lena in the special rocking chair.

Pop does a great job feeding his little "peanut".

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

So this is love...

Daddy and his little "Lena Peanut" as he calls her.
Last night we came home after Lena's 8pm feeding and bath.  It was hard to leave her in the NICU but we know they are taking good care of her and we were glad to get some needed rest before today.  We are headed out to the hospital to spend the day with Lena.  The NICU nurses have been great working with us on caring for her, breastfeeding, etc.  The doctor hopes to send her home with us either today or tomorrow.  We will see.  

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Little Miss Lena Update

 Lena in the NICU
We had to place Lena in the NICU the morning after she was born.  While she was small at four pounds, three ounces, she was well developed.  We were able to breastfeed and supplement with formula in the first hour of her life and she took to both really well.  She just had trouble maintaining her body temperature.  The doctor said that Lena had the cord wrapped around her neck when they took her out during my c-section.  That would explain why she wouldn't drop during the labor process.  Also, her cord was unusually short and "scrawny" both indicators  that I had been secretly struggling with pre-eclampsia for awhile before I was actually induced.  I have been able to pump colostrum and deliver it to the NICU several times a day for Lena.  They said she has already gained back her birth weight in 48 hours when it usually takes babies 7 days to accomplish that.  The NICU is hoping she can go home with us Monday night.   Having her in the NICU has allowed us to be able to work on getting some extra rest before taking Lena home.  They are having trouble keeping my blood pressure down and most likely I will have to go home on blood pressure medication.

Lena's Labor
On Monday when the doctor decided to induce it was our wish that we give our best effort to have a vaginal birth unless my life or Lena's life was in danger. From my previous posts you learned that the first several days of induction were spent trying to open my cervix.  It never did open on it's own.  One doctor "popped" it open to 1 cm.  The next day another doctor used a cathiter balloon to force it open to 4 cm which was quite painful to say the least.  My water broke shortly after that procedure.  Then another doctor forced me open to 5 cm.  I had 9 doses of gel and pills to soften the cervix and I was on the maximum dosage of pitocin.  At 4 cm I asked for an epidural to deal with the labor pains.  It worked for about an hour or two and then it deadened my legs but not anything else including my abdominal area where the labor contractions were.  I labored for about 14 hours (induced for a four days at that point) when the doctor on duty finally suggested we turn to a c-section.  Baby Lena's heart rate had weakened slightly due to all the induction drugs and we were out of time to get my body to cooperate.  I was exhausted from four days of this and quickly agreed to the surgery. Once we were in the OR things moved quite quickly and thank goodness because it had been really difficult to experience active labor for so long without being able to move around because of IVs, cathiters, and the not so helpful epidural.  

It has been awesome to celebrate the arrival of Lena Joyce with everyone who has prayed so long and hard for her over the years.  I am so thankful for her.  Dan and I are so excited that we get to be her parents and take her home with us soon.  I love her to pieces already!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Meet the Newest Shackleton!

 
Lena Joyce Shackleton born November 3, 2011 via c-section at 8:57pm. 4lbs 3oz 17 1/4 inches long and as cute as can be! Thanks for the well wishes everyone. We can't wait to bring her home!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Still trying to induce...

Well what can I say, I have a very stubborn cervix.  They have been trying for the past 36 hours to get it open with gel and pills.  I just received my 8th dose.  The good news is that with the help of medication they have been able to safely stabilize my blood pressure and baby girl is looking really good.  This gives us time to work on my cervix rather than rush to a c-section.   I have an IV with three meds, take an oral blood pressure medicine, get blood drawn every 6 hrs, a blood pressure cuff for regulated checks, a cathiter, and belly monitors for baby's heartbeat and my contractions.  Even with all that it hasn't been too bad being in the hospital.  I am resting, visiting with family, and looking forward to meeting our girl. Once in a while I hear a loud baby crying and I know a mom in another room down the hall has just delivered.  I am excited for my turn soon!  We may have to wait days rather than hours for the cervix to cooperate.  We shall see...

FYI: Several nurses have commented on how patient I am.  Oh if they only knew how short a few days is in the whole scheme of things.  I know many of you out there know exactly how I feel!

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