Hi Elizabeth - I'm glad that you're enjoying my blog - I'll also start following yours now. :)
Well, it looks like we're around the same steps in our adoption process. I was looking at your timeline, and we've done everything you have thus far, except for the fingerprints. We did complete the packet in 14 days, but that was just one packet - We haven't even started our interviews with Bethany yet. I hope we do soon, though!
Dan and I were married on June 21, 2003 and have been living an adventure ever since. We enjoy traveling the world, taking advantage of the cultured and diversified life in Southern California, and making every day count. In our adventure we have had to battle infertility; a battle that we are winning because of the miracle of embryo adoption. Our first embryo transfer did not result in a live birth. Our second transfer resulted in our first miracle child who was born in November 2011. In November 2012 and August 2013 we had our third and fourth frozen embryo transfers to try for another beautiful baby but they were unsuccessful. In November 2013 we had our fifth embryo transfer and transferred our last three embryos from two different genetic donor families. Our second miracle girl was born in the summer of 2014.
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7/29 Bethany Preliminary Application Submitted 7/31 NEDC Application and Donor Letter Submitted 7/31 Fertility Records Retrieved and Mailed to NEDC 8/3 Birth certificates obtained 8/7 Bethany Full Application Submitted 8/10 NEDC Release and consent forms notarized and mailed 8/12 Bethany Homestudy Begins 8/15 We announce our adoption plans to family and friends 8/18 Livescan Finger Printing for homestudy 8/18 Physicals completed 8/19 Bloodwork completed 8/24 Second physicals completed and paperwork submitted 8/27 First Aid and Adult/Child/Infant CPR Certification 9/3 DMV to request driving records (2.5 hour wait for a 5 minute transaction) 9/16 Lots of xeroxing!!! 9/18 Dropped off most homestudy paperwork at Bethany 9/21 Marriage certificate obtained 9/27 Dan and Elizabeth finish their self study questions! 9/29 Fertility records, donor letter and profile pictures mailed to the NEDC 9/30 Home study paid for and paperwork complete! Interviews to be scheduled soon! 10/8 First home study interview 10/13 Second home study interview 10/19 Third home study interview (home visit) 11/4 Home study completion date! 11/14 Home study mailed to the NEDC 11/30 Email from Knoxville Bethany that homestudy is approved and approval is sent to NEDC 12/1 NEDC states that we are 25th in line for a mock transfer appointment at the clinic in TN and they are already booked through March. = ( 12/6 Submit our embryo recipient profile on Miracles Waiting 12/7 Began search for an adoption lawyer with experience in embryo adoption. 12/17 Submit our application to Snowflakes with Nightlight Christian Adoptions 12/23 Family Profile and matching fee submitted to Snowflakes 12/29 More paperwork submitted to Snowflakes (contract draft) 12/31 Fax new patient forms and past fertility records to Fertility and Surgical Associates (Dr. who is doing our FET)
2010
1/8 Matching interview with social worker from Snowflakes 1/11 Patient consultation and examination with FET Dr. 1/22 Matching begins!!! Our profile will be shown to prospective donor families 2/4 Saline ultrasound with Dr. K 2/8 Pre-op with Dr. K 2/11 Laparoscopy surgery 2/16 Snowflakes notifies us of a possible match! 2/18 We accept and our match with four 6-day blasts is official! 3/20 Begin Birth Control Pills (BCP) This puts my body in a "waiting pattern" as we finalize our contract and ship the embryos to California 4/7 Sign our embryo adoption contract with notary and pay our second to last chunk of adoption fees 4/24 Donor family calls off the adoption 4/26 Matching begins again. Looking for a new donor family. 6/23 Snowflakes notifies us of a possible match! 6/25 We accept and our match with four blasts is official! 7/21 Sign our embryo adoption contract with notary 7/22 Begin Birth Control Pills which puts my body in a "waiting pattern" as we wait for the embryos to arrive in California 7/28 Our adoption is finalized today when the donor family signed the contract! 9/1 Embryos are delivered to our clinic in California 9/20 Meds delivered, shot clinic, Dr's visit FET #1
9/22 Last BCP 9/27 Start Delestrogen injections (.2cc) twice a week 10/4 Mock transfer (lining too thin increase Delestrogen to .3cc) 10/11 Appointment to check lining & do blood work (lining looks great!) 10/13 Progesterone in oil (PIO) shots begin (once per day) 10/18 Frozen embryo transfer (9:45am PST) (Transferred two 5-day blasts one hatching, one expanding 50-60% intact) 10/18-10/21 No work order - rest during implantation time 10/22 Bloodwork for progesterone and estrogen levels (looks great) 10/28 Pregnancy test (Beta #1) - Negative
10/29 Debrief with Dr. K - Notified of a possible new embryo donor match through Dr. K's clinic 11/7 BCP started 11/10 New donor match confirmed through FASAC (5 blasts) 11/15 Legal paperwork begins on new embryo donor match 12/13 FASAC donor family calls off the match 12/15 Another new donor match confirmed through FSAC -12 embryos (six 2PN and six blasts) 12/15 New donor couple signs release paperwork /Legal paperwork begins 12/26 Receive egg donor and sperm donor profiles for our match 12/28 Sign legal retainer to work with our lawyer. Pay attorney fees for our legal paperwork. ($750 to the donor's lawyer and $350 to ours)
2011
1/25 Receive the donor contract 1/26 Review and revise contract with our lawyer 2/1 Sign and notarize our FSAC embryo donation contract / overnight check to have notary go to donor family's home 2/10 Re-sign and re-notarize our FSAC embryo donation contract for the donor couple's lawyer. 2/16 Our adoption of 12 2PN embryos through FSAC is final!
FET #2
2/11 Last BCP 2/11 Baseline ultrasound and consultation with Dr. K 2/16 Start Delestrogen injections (.2cc) twice a week 2/23 Visit Dr. K (check lining & do blood work - increase delestrogen to .25cc) 3/2 Appointment to check lining & do blood work (lining 9.8 & looks great!) 3/4 Progesterone in oil (PIO) shots begin (once per day) 3/9 Frozen embryo transfer (1:00 PST) Transferred two 5-day hatching blasts 3/9-3/12 Bed rest - implantation time! 3/14 Blood work for progesterone and estrogen levels 3/17 Positive home pregnancy test 9dp5dt 3/19 Beta #1 @ 10dp5dt - 425 (official preg. test) 3/21 Beta #2 @ 12dp5dt - 1121 4/1 Ultrasound #1 (6wk) - two fetal sacs and two heartbeats - Twins! Baby A - 3.3 mm Baby B - 3.0mm 4/11 Ultrasound #2 (7w3d) - Baby A no heartbeat measuring 1 week behind Baby B - measuring 7w5d and a heartbeat of 150bpm, 13.8mm 4/27 Ultrasound #3 (9w5d) - Baby B measuring 10w1d, heartbeat of 180bpm and 28.8mm - Released from Dr. K 5/10 First appt with new OB (11w4d) 6/6 Second appt with OB (15w3d) 6/21 Anatomy Scan (17w4d)- It's a girl! 7/5 Third appt with OB 8/1 Fourth appt with OB 8/23 Glucose Test (I passed!) 8/29 Fifth appt with OB (27w3d) 10/31 36 week ultrasound - baby measuring small but facing the right way 10/31 Admitted to labor and delivery for preclampsia - labor is induced 11/3 After four days the induction officially fails and Lena Joyce is born via c-section at 8:57pm at 4lbs 3oz
2012
FET #3
9/17 Phone consult with Dr. K 10/4 Baseline ultrasound/blood work and consultation with Dr. K 10/5 Start Delestrogen injections (.25cc) twice a week 10/11 Dr. Visit (check lining & do blood work - increase delestrogen to .3cc - lining is 10.5 and looking good) 10/18 Dr. Visit (check lining & do blood work - lining is 9.6 and looking good) 10/25 Dr. Visit (check lining & do blood work - looking good) 10/31 Progesterone in oil (PIO) shots begin (once per day) 11/5 Frozen embryo transfer (10:00 PST) 11/5-11/7 Bed rest - implantation time! 11/10 Blood work for progesterone and estrogen levels 11/15 BETA #1 - Negative
2013
FET #4
6/29 Phone consult 7/16 Baseline ultrasound/blood work and consultation with Dr. K & Start Delestrogen injections (.2cc) twice a week 7/23 Dr. Visit (check lining & do blood work - lining is 10+ and looking good)
7/30 Dr. Visit (check linning & do blook work - lining is great)
8/9 Two 2PN embryos are thawed (only one survives)
8/9 Progesterone in oil (PIO) shots begin (once per day)
3/17 Anatomy Scan/Ultrasound 19w1d - Looks great! It's a girl!
4/3 Third OB appt. 21w4d
4/28 Fourth OB appt. 25w1d
5/28 Fifth OB appt.29w3d
6/9 Sixth OB appt. 31w1d
6/30 Seventh OB appt. 34w1d
7/14 Eighth OB appt. and 36 week ultrasound - baby girl looks great - approx. 5lb 11oz -24% for size 7/22 Ninth OB appt. 37w2d - tested positive for strep 7/29 Tenth OB appt. 38w2d - first cervical check dilated 1/2 cm and 60% effaced 8/5 Eleventh OB appt - 39w2d - second cervical check 1/2 cm 8/10 Baby Girl's Official Due Date 8/12 Twelveth OB appt! - 40w2d - third cervical check 1 cm 8/13 Monitoring with belly monitors: looks good 8/15 Ultrasound monitoring: amniotic fluid is low admitted to labor and delivery 8/15 McKinley Jane is born via c-section at 3:45pm at 7lbs5oz and 19.5 inches long
Our Infertility Journey
6/2003 Married 5/2004 First began TTC 5/2005 Post-Coital reveals hostile cervical mucus 6/2005 Semen Analysis normal 7/2005 Consultation with RE 8/2005 IUI #1 9/2005 IUI #2 with clomid 2/2007 IUI #3 3/2007 IUI #4 4/2007 IUI #5 5/2007 Hysterosalpingogram (normal - tubes not blocked) 12/2007 Natural pregnancy 1/2008 Miscarriage at six weeks 7/2009 Began our adoption journey 1/2010 Consultation with new RE 2/2010 Laparoscopic surgery to explore for endometriosis (no endo /fallopian tubes are contorted and blocked) Prognosis: IVF and adoption are our only options to have children. A natural pregnancy would be miraculous.
Where we've been...
Aruba (June '08, June '13)
Boston (one glorious evening in Dec. 2004)
Cabo San Lucas (June 2004)
Catalina Camping (July 2011)
Chicago and the Midwest (May '12)
Conneticut (Thanks Bob and Rachel! - Dec. 2004)
Costa Rica (June '13)
Croatia (Aug. 2010)
Crystal Cove Camping Mar 2014
Greece (Aug. 2010)
Hawaii (Maui June '03,Jan'14) (Oahu and Kauai Aug/Sept '12)
2 comments:
Hi Elizabeth -
I'm glad that you're enjoying my blog - I'll also start following yours now. :)
Well, it looks like we're around the same steps in our adoption process. I was looking at your timeline, and we've done everything you have thus far, except for the fingerprints. We did complete the packet in 14 days, but that was just one packet - We haven't even started our interviews with Bethany yet. I hope we do soon, though!
Jennifer :)
Hehe, fun. That's how I do it too. =)
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