Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Adventures with Bebub!


This weekend I was thrilled to become an Auntie again! Since little Jackson Yale Orr arrived three weeks early nobody was expecting him this weekend. All other family members were out of the state and Dan was working 12 hour shifts, sooooo big brother Caleb and I got some serious bonding time in while proud parents Ben and Lindsay went to the hospital to have Jackson. It was SUCH a fun weekend for both Bebub and I that I thought I would post some highlights from our adventures:

1. When I made some quick lane changes on the freeway to get onto the 5 freeway Caleb says, "Auntie Elizabeth are you trying to win the race?". And then every time we would drive through a construction zone he would yell out in a panicked voice, "Watch out! Don't crash into those cones!". Caleb is quite the backseat driver sometimes.

2. It is fun to hear other people's influence on Caleb's life through the things he says. On a few occasions (as we drove down the freeway and went for a walk) Caleb exclaimed, "Look at all those BEAUTIFUL flowers!!! Aren't those flowers beautiful Auntie Elizabeth?" That was totally my Dad's influence. When Caleb shared his new knowledge on the difference between boys and girls and how they go pee Caleb says, "Boys shake and girls wipe, but sometimes boys wipe too when they go poo". That was Ben's influence. SOOOOO funny!

3. Caleb has great one-liners. When visiting the hospital to see Lindsay, Ben, and Jackson the nurse and Caleb had a little conversation that went like this:
Nurse: "What is your name?"
Caleb: "Caleb Matthew Orr"
Nurse: "That is quite a name! Who named you?"
Caleb: "Jesus"
Nurse: "Ha Ha . . . that's a good answer!"

4. One of my most fun chores was shopping in Target with Caleb. He is so entertaining as he comments on everything that passes by. In the ladies clothes isle he helped me pick out a new shirt to wear and insisted that he try it on first. Too bad I don't have a picture of that one! When we first got to Target it was 8:15am on Saturday morning and needless to say there were very few people there. It took him awhile to realize it but he finally stopped talking suddenly and exclaimed, "Where are all the people?" I think he got a little creeped out that it seemed we were all alone in this huge store.

5. Caleb can finally say my whole name correctly!!! I was actually a little sad about this because I am always entertained by the nicknames kids give me because my name is so difficult to pronounce. Caleb, I will always be your "Auntie BF"!

6. Other ways we filled our time: taking a walk with Caleb's gigantic and very strong dog Genie, going to Chuck-E-Cheese, reading books, swinging on the swing, making and eating skinny pancakes, wrestling on the floor, looking at all of Auntie Ray Ray's Facebook pictures online, going to pick up Grandma Gray at the airport, eating HOT chocolate and HOTcakes at the Carriage House with Grandma Gray (Caleb thought it was cool that the word hot was in two parts of his meal.), taking a bath (Caleb thinks shampoo is of the devil.), seeing baby Jackson for the first time, and hanging out with Auntie Kristen and Uncle Sam.

After our long weekend together I explained to Caleb that Grandma Gray was coming in a few hours and then I would go back to live at my own house. His reply was, "and then I am going to MISS you!". Ahhhhh. . .I love those moments!

Thanks for a fabulous weekend Bebub! Let's do it again! And major props to Ben and Lindsay on raising a wonderful boy and giving birth to a second! May you continue to have such beautiful, vivacious, talkative, and loving children!



(. . .and now I need to go clean up all the fruit gummies, fish snack crumbs, and Chuck-E-Cheese tokens in my car. . . ha ha Caleb is as messy as his Auntie and I don't have the excuse of being two!)

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Guess who else is slimming down???!!!


One of the additional benefits of my new healthier lifestyle has been the emergence of a healthier husband! I no longer bake snickerdoodles to show my love for Dan. Instead we go for a run together like we did last night or I make him homemade salsa or mahi mahi fish dinner. He has been playing tennis about 9 hours a week and that has also definitely helped. I am so proud of Dan! In the last six weeks he has lost 21 pounds! Go Dan!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

IVF vs Embryonic Adoption

Along our journey to start our family Dan and I have had to make MANY decisions.

One of the many decisions Dan and I have had to make was how far we would pursue infertility treatments before we would stop trying to have our own biological children. When I learned that only 60-70% of the embryos survive being thawed for transfer I knew that IVF was not for us. Dan and I believe that life begins at conception and I could not freeze embryos knowing that 30-40% of them would die in the freeze/thaw process. We could of course opt for transferring all of the fresh embryos and not freeze any but this would not give us a very good chance for success for our money.

This is when the decision making really began. Should we be DINKs for life and focus on further investing in our family, friends, students and coworkers? (DINK = Double Income No Kids) Should we look to adopt? Should we do international, domestic, foster-to-adopt, or embryonic adoption? If an international adoption, which country do we adopt from? How do we feel about adopting a non-Caucasian child? A boy or girl? Older or younger? A special needs child? How much can we afford to spend on adoption? Which agency should we go with or should we pursue private adoption with a lawyer?

Two years later after much research, discussion with others who have adopted, and much thought and prayer we finally feel at peace with our decision to pursue embryonic adoption through the National Embryo Donation Center and Bethany Christian Services.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

These are a few of my favorite things. . .




Today marks my 25 lb loss! I have knocked almost 4 points off my BMI, lost 3.5% of body fat, and I have lost two dress sizes! It took all week to work off that last pound! I thought in honor of my success I would reflect on some of my new healthy lifestyle favorites:

Dryers Fruit Bars - No Sugar Added


Diet Green Tea with Citrus from Costco (Lipton is pictured but Costco Kirkland brand is cheaper!)


Yoplait Berry Smoothie Mix


Light String Cheese


Non-Fat Cottage Cheese (Low Fat Pictured)


Rosarita Zesty Salsa Non-Fat Refried Beans


Fresh Ripe Cherries


Jello Sugar Free Pudding Cups (Chocolate & Banana, Dulce de leche, Vanilla, etc.)


Premier Chocolate Protein Shakes (30 grams protein, 1 gram sugar and very cheap at Costco!)


Subway 6 inch on wheat - Sweet onion teriyaki chicken or chicken salad


Quaker Instant Oatmeal - Weight Control


Italian Squash


Plastic Baby Spoons (Eating with these forces me to chew my food better and eat slower; plus they are sooo cute!)

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Stuck!!!!

For the last week I have had this great blog post saved to celebrate my 25 pound loss and I am so frustrated because I am stuck at the 24 pound mark. The worst part is I totally don't know why??!!! I had great workouts this week (yoga, lap swimming, jogging, elliptical work) and I have been eating well (1000-1200 calories a day). I am going to mix it up this week and add some weights, more yoga, and more intense jogging and eliminate some more carbs from my diet. When I finally lose that 25th pound I'll post my special blog entry. I will NOT give up!

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Chuck-E-Cheese is the BEST!



Last Friday I got to babysit my friend's 2 1/2 year old, Blake. Taking a cue from Sam and Kristen, I decided to give Blake the best day of his young life! We went to Chuck-E-Cheese at 9 am and were the first ones there. I cashed in our coupon of $10 for 100 tokens and then we were off! Skeet ball, roller coaster simulator, air hockey, slides and tunnels, you name it we did it! Three hours later we had spent every one of our tokens. Blake's favorite part was putting the tokens in the machines and holding "his monies". We ended up with 307 tickets which we cashed in for 1 rubber red snake, 1 Chuck-E-Cheese football, 1 sheet of stickers, and Blake's favorite an orange Chuck-E-Cheese spoon. We had soooo much fun! I told Dan that I am going to be calling up all of my friends asking, "Can your kids come play with me at Chuck-E-Cheese?" Such a fun day. . .

Monday, July 6, 2009

Progress

Dan said I that I needed to update our blog so let me sum up-

Walking for exercise was a good start but it was soon not enough for me. I LOVE to lap swim and I have been enjoying the gym in our community as well. Now I am beginning to run a few times a week which is great because to be able to run again was a goal of mine. I also bought two biggest loser DVDs (yoga and boot camp) that are led by Bob and they are great! Today Dan and I began to clean out the garage which included four bins of "skinnier" clothes from the past years. I was able to fit into some of my stuff and have some cute former clothes to look forward to when I lose a few more pounds. Well that is all for now!


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